as long as the meal or trip are before or after the meeting, I think the answer is yes. It will go under "meals and entertainment" but you only get to deduct half of the expense. Further on the receipt you need to put a social security number and the name of the individual with whom you are 'specifically' meeting that particular night. I also think you need to alternate who is paying what. You buy the drinks one night, them the next. Oops, does that make sense? :-)
We need a CPA. Anyone know a CPA Dresden fan?