We have a positive, non-critical attitude, and welcome everyone.... lol or spelling errors, even those with rather overbearing opinions. Even our "touchy subject areas" are expressly for civil discussion. I personally am offended by someone that appears to be critical of others as it implies that one's view point or personal preferences should take precedent over another persons. Such is a rare, rare occurrence on the Jim-butcher.com forum.
As you read more posts, I believe you will find this a pleasant place, filled with many attitudes, ages, opinions, spelling gurus ,and not so spelling or grammar proficient people. And yes, some of us enjoy emotes.
Of course, if you find it difficult to be welcomed in such a place--it is your own decision to go elsewhere. I understand that something called "flaming" seems to be par on some forums. Happily it isn't here.
We look forward to you sharing your own views, opinions, humor, stories, and sharing ours with you.