Yes, she is almost 14 now. I don't know if I already told you, but my kids and my husband are evangelical Lutherans, while I am a Catholic. We decided that because I have a rather lose connection with the church and always hung out more with the protestant crowd so to speak, lol.
Also as a child I didn't understand the differences, because the whole wide family has always been mixed confessions, but all Christians. So it wasn't important to me, but it was important to my husband that his children would not be Catholic, so here we are.
We also had a protestant wedding but only because at first we wanted to be wed by two priests of each confession and the Catholic priest didn't want the protestant one in his church and he didn't want to be second in the protestant church himself. So I said, OK, forget it, we won't need you, just the other priest will do. Then he threatened me that I would be excluded from the holy sacraments if I went through with the wrong priest and I told him that he could keep his sacraments ... well yeah. I guess even priests are just human, and this one was ... Well, you know.
After a few years we moved anyway and there is another Catholic priest, who is more modern in his views.
And I know now that some Catholic priests do Last Rites for the dying ones even if they left the church completely like my father did. And I looked it up: Last Rites are a sacrament. I call bullshit on the weird priest.
Ok so that's the story of why the kids are not Catholic like me.