To Murphy, I'd add a bunch of personal issues that hurt her more than mere physical injuries.
- Seeing her second husband marry her kid sister. (Effectively "I'd love you -- if you were younger and less you") (BR)
- Feelings of failure associated with not taking over her mother's matriarchal role in the family. (BR)
- Finally opening up to a relationship with Harry, getting all dressed up for their date, showing up and finding his blood and a bullet hole. (Shades of Angelus's gift to Giles...) (Ch)
To Charity, I'd add a bunch of things that happened to her kids, but most especially Molly in PG -- Molly inherited the power from Charity, and Charity would blame herself for Molly keeping the magic a secret, and nearly getting her head chopped off. This is probably the single worst thing that ever happened to her.
To Susan...
- Sifting through body parts of ripped up children, putting them back together to learn if any of them were her daughter -- all the while dealing with the lust to suck the blood from the pieces.
- Maggie kidnapped by the Red Court, to be sacrificed.
- Martin's breathtaking betrayal -- possibly the closest relationship of her life. Ten years as partners in the Fellowship, and he gave her daughter to the Red Court. And, no, the betrayal wasn't fake. He *really* betrayed her, even though it was part of a betrayal of the Red King as well.
And if you're going to list one-shot characters like Kim Delaney and Meryl, Lydia probably deserves an entry.
Lydia:
- Cassandra's Tears -- it's already a curse, knowing the future and not being able to get anyone to believe you.
- Specific dreams about the Nightmare coming for her
- Hiding in the Church while the Nightmare rages outside
- Kidnapped by vampires
- Almost sacrificed to desecrate the Sword
- Possessed by Nightmare
Maybe Harley MacFinn as well.
- Loup Garou curse.
- Destruction of his circle -- guilt over the deaths, especially Kim's.
- Killed by Harry.
And Helen Beckitt/Demeter
For Thomas, I'd throw in his backstory -- his Father has been trying to kill him for years, he's a psychic vampire in love, and the single worst thing that happened to him: he ate Justine, and thought he'd killed her.
Rawlins -- add that he got exiled to SI after the events of PG.
To Ivy, I'd add the backstory -- it's an incredibly painful childhood trauma.
To Carlos and to Luccio I'd add Cristos having them "arrested/detained" during Changes.
Mister had his home burned down!
Mrs. Spunkelcrief had her home burned down.
The Willoughbys had their home burned down.
Abby got shot in the belly [GS] (Ack. Did she die? Search doesn't show any mention of her beyond "They don't know if she's going to live or die.")