Ah, yes, I've got it. Something like "ain't it true?".
Oh, I remembered, I was bullied when I was a child, first years in primary school. But tje kid was just bad with everyone, so we didn't see him as a bully, just like a very ill-mannered kid which nobody liked. I thought many times later if we could have done something for him, because something must have causing his bad behavior. I was told he died (overdose) when he was a teen. Is one of the things I still wonder, how could we have done for make it better?