I think being influenced is the nature of being a writer. I mean, you can't learn unless you're influenced by some outside source.
If you're raised Hindu you're entire life, that's what you'll believe, then perhaps when you're out on your own and are exposed to other believes, perhaps you'll take a liking to one of them.
We can't be good writers unless we're influenced by good writing. And, on the other side of the coin, if all we ever read was bad writing, then we'd write nothing but crap.
It's necessary, but I'm not gonna say I like it. Half way through my current book I started reading Gaiman's "Neverwhere" and was quite irked when I discovered my story was painfully similar. But not so much that I stole anything. If anyone reads my book who has read "Neverwhere", however, will most definately be reminded of Gaiman's book.
I guess I'm not gonna complain that I'm thinking like Gaiman.