Hi guys, new to the community here and relevantly new to the Dresden Files RPG (and RPGs in general...at least the pen and paper kind).  I'm looking for ideas for my character.  I'm a White Court Virgin (the lusty kind) at the moment, and I'd like to eventually graduate to being a full White Court, but the way we have it set up so far with the amount of refresh we have and the powers I'm not willing to give up (Incite at range, lasting emotion, and potent emotion), I need to find a way to give myself extra refresh if I want to actually be able to PLAY it, instead of just transcending at the very end of the character's arc.  There's not really a way to do that given in the RPG books, according to our GM, who is the only one who has read them so far, but he tells me I'm basically going to have to make up things that could be used against me to get extra refresh.  So I'm here asking, any ideas/suggestions?

For example, he sometimes plays a fae character with the cold iron catch that gives him a few extra points to play around with, but he's on the team that says "True Love" doesn't get me any extra points because it's so rare.  So I basically have to give myself an extra trouble aspect or something to give myself some extra points, right?  Like being cursed or having (another) group with a reason to kill me.  Or something.

Help?  I'd be happy to clarify further if I can, since my rambling is probably not that helpful, but like I said, I'm relatively new to the game (though not to the books...I'm reasonably familiar with those).