Just FYI, it's not fae disgusing as aliens. If you look at a lot of the "newer" alien abduction/encounter/spotting stories, and you look at a lot of the old faerie stories, you *will* see a *lot* of similarities. Faerie lights? UFOs. Little green men? Nixies maybe.
Basically, the stories *evolved* because science and understanding of the world did. You think we'd have *aliens* if we never took off into the air? Or space? And how much of our mind fills in blanks? A forced sexual encounter with a fae turns into "probing" because that's what extraterrestrials would do.
In a lot of "mythological research", the general conclusion is that aliens == fae and fae == aliens.
And as for the NN on other planets: Personally I'd say it's there. Maybe not anywhere as strong. Where a 4 shift effect is needed here, maybe it's 20 there. (world walking part of thuam) And as for Seelie and Unseelie courts. Maybe there is a greater balance there, or shared domain (no seasons, constant all around). Or each court owns permanent claim on certain sections, as they're constant temp all "year" round.
Or maybe there is an alien race. Using the NN as a sort of hyperSpace for FTL travel.