well, sir or madam, or like neuro singular they, I'd say you are atypical of the human experience.  Behavior such as what I described and you agreed to is generally considered unstable and "wrong", especially if you're applying it to human beings or non insectoid life (people don't seem to care about insects being harmed or killed cause theyre icky).   Just a thought lol 

This is self delusion. While I will say not all; the majority of humans, as a psychological crutch break down others to make themselves feel better. It may not be causing physical harm, but we as a species routinely inflict emotional harm on others for exactly the reason you stated. It makes us feel better.