Another factor to remember is that while 3 threads might have the same "heat value", if one of those threads has a post from someone with a history of playing with matches, that someone is going to get more attention.
One of the reasons for the public warnings is we're trying to make sure
everyone understands the new standards of decorum. Say Mickey PM's me because I'm being a big too vulgar, asks me to please not use my peers so familiar... I might ammend my behavior but others will keep doing it until they each get their own PM on the issue. That's a lot of PM's. But if Mickey comes over and roasts my ass, Prisc kicks dirt on it, Ashton makes me eat it, then
everybody gets that calling someone a
something really, really, narsty, use your imgination
is a big old No Go. Nobody likes getting their balls busted, much less in public, but we're trying to salvage a forum that was going south of cheese in a number of ways. I can assure you there is no shortage of gentle PM advice and suggestion, but we don't always have time for it.
Now, for us Baby Moderaptors, if you feel we make a comment or correction that's over the top or out of line, talk to Iago. He wants to grade our driving, and needs to know if we need correction, or to be sent to play with Old Yeller.