Jim has said that Thomas was born on Valentine's day because the universe has a sense of humor. Literally nothing has suggested that Thomas is also a Starborn other than that Mab said she could take him, and even that was said to put pressure on Harry.
Plus neither the equinox or solstice come anywhere near Halloween.
sorry I misspoke
The 4 cross-quarter days fall between equinoxes and solstices. Halloween is the spookiest one – derived from a sacred festival of ancient Celts and Druids – coming as days grow short and nights long in the Northern Hemisphere.
Halloween in the DF is specifically a time of ending, cross that with Harrys affinity for Death, endings and Winter(which is all over the place), Elaine's spring birthday and her connotations to Summer and her more nature bound elements in casting AND then take Thomas's
very specific birthday and the fact he's basically become addicted to feeding on Love via only satisfied by Justine, more or less becoming an addict to a poison, like a drinker, that poison being love. Annnd then maybe you start to realize not all starborn are the same? That maybe they are as varied as say... the stars in the sky?
Another one that has that potential 'good man who saved fallen mother' make up is Molly whom I could point out as a real likely canidate for being Mab's star reborn as she directly effected how Fearbringer was formed in reality and was trained to use fear without breaking the laws by Lea before becoming a winter canidate(or as a result of said training/mirror alignment Mmm?)
But your right literally nothing is outright stated about much of anything in the DF, instead it's left to us, quite intentionally, to fill in the Lacuna.
THAT! right there, I made you use logic in a linear fashion to guess at something stated nonlinearly based on a known premise, assuming you know by now the meaning of lacuna. collecting and connecting otherwise disparate thoughts into a cohesive formation
It's not that hard to do really.... and this is why I was looking for someone to talk to on the level, not listen to what we already know for sure. Iff'n I wanted that I have the books, yea?