When you talk about torturing your readers don't be surprised if they talk in terms of punishment, although I doubt angry mobs are going to Colorado with torches and pitchforks.
One of the biggest complaints about the series is how Jim treats women.
You mean that they are either more powerful, or smarter than the lead male character? Susan and Murphy who weren't more intelligent, or powerful matched his courage.
Murphy was the only female character to make it this far.
Molly, Charity, Lara, Elaine, Mab, Leah, Titania, and now Maggie and Bonea. Does them not being human make them not count as female in a fantasy story? I probably forgot someone too. This is a first person story. Everything is from Dresden's point of view, and revolve around him. If someone has a problem with other characters not being as important, they should read books that aren't first person stories.
Susan was sacrificed for a child that serves no point in the series.
Everything is about Dresden, and how things affect him in the stories. Having a child is one of the biggest things a person can experience, and much of what has happened is because of his child. He never would have become Winter Knight if not for her, and what that choice has led to. Susan's sacrifice also ended the Red Court war, the White Council should have a marble statue of her erected at their headquarters.
Murphy was killed to prop up Butters.
yes because Harry wasn't effected by her death, and him getting with Lara isn't a direct result, or her returning in the future as a Valkyrie will serve no purpose.
Who also serves no purpose.
I'm sure fans of Butters would disagree, and their opinion is just as valuable as yours.
There are no female characters that aren't f***ed up. We have the inhumans, a vampire sex pot, a failed wizard, an nemfected drone and a body swapped Warden old lady in a young women's body.
Yeah because Dresden isn't f***ed up right? What human females would matter for Dresden exactly at this point? They would be nothing but defenseless targets. Harry is now a monster living amongst monsters. Molly is in the same boat as Dresden. Elaine is going to be big later on. Lara is always one step ahead of Dresden.
If someone isn't a fan of the story, they should read something else.