The point is that Harry is wrong that the Council could just find all these young talents before it was too late. He couldn't when he already knew the kid. How does he expect the Council to do what he couldn't when they don't even know the kid?
But that still does not make him responsible for Molly since he wasn't around when her talent showed itself. Having said that, when he got on the Merlin over the Korean Kid he was frustrated and very upset to witness a kid get the chop.. Something he nearly fell victim to.. Actually both have a good point, the Merlin that there are too many kids with the talent, too few wizards to mentor them or step up to put their own heads on the line if the kid has begun the slide into darkness. Harry in that each potential warlock should have a fair trial, because they have devolved somewhat into a kangaroo court. Not even the Merlin can put a head back on the shoulders of some poor kid if a mistake is made, and while some are not salvageable, ones that are shouldn't lose his or her head because a wizard doesn't have the balls to step up and take responsibility.
When did I say any of that?
You said that Molly didn't go to Harry for help because of her hero worship of him. I said that made no sense, one would think it would give her more reason to go to him. What I am saying Harry never encouraged Molly's hero worship of him in the first place. He is what he is, as a young girl than teen, she thought being a wizard was cool, doing what Harry can do is cool, his bravery is cool, and last but not least while not as handsome perhaps as Thomas, Harry is still a good looking young guy. Natural for her to be smitten, I seriously doubt that Harry could do much about any of that.
[I figured] that you wouldn't want to come up to your favorite rock star and start fumbling around on a guitar so that the first thing he thinks about you is that you're incompetent."
She shivered and blushed even more. "No. It wasn't like that..."
Sure it was.
It's Harry's theory, but Molly, herself, says it wasn't. Even if he insists that it was, but he never gave her a chance to give her reason.. That is a mistake on his part, a good teacher should always listen and not jump to conclusions. He asked and answered his own question to her and assumed he was right.. He might be, but he needs to listen to Molly as well. Again while some of what Harry said to Molly may be true, the real blame falls on Charity. She is Molly's mother, she is the one that was headed down the warlock path before she was save from the dragon by Michael. She is the one so afraid of magic and prejudiced against Harry. Molly went to her first, what Harry describes is how a young teen might see it, not wanting to go to her idol..
But Molly did go to her mother first,Charity is an adult, Molly is her child, she could either have packed Molly up and went to see Harry, or go to Harry herself for advice on how to handle Molly's awoken talent. She did neither, she alienated Molly with her prejudice and fears, who then ran away in a rebellious state of mind that only peers her age as she saw it could understand. I think the real reason she didn't go to Harry first off wasn't the explanation that Harry gave, but because she knew he'd take her right back to her parents, the last place she wanted to go.