I've figured out why I object to it. My problem is two-fold:
1) First, that it claims that Harry is the reason for all the nasty stuff happening around him. Whether Harry were around or not, the problems of Storm Front, Fool Moon, Summer Knight, Death Masks, part of Blood Rites, Dead Beat (probably), possibly Proven Guilty (depending on what people's motivations were--we just don't know yet), Turn Coat (although it wouldn't have happened in Chicago), and possibly Cold Days, would still have happened. And most of them would have happened in the same place. So how is Harry considered responsible for bringing down all that trouble onto people?
You seem to have packed a lot of stuff in there; some of it unpacks, but lots of it overlaps...
Choice and free will... yeah, Harry takes more blame onto himself than he should, than is reasonable, than is true. Hero complex, bigtime. Guilt, etc. He's big into "if only... " and "what if I..." and torments himself will all that. Given that Harry is the narrator, it's easy to mistake his POV for "what we are supposed to think," but we are just seeing
what Harry thinks about things, and we need to remember that's all we see.
That said... Harry kinda-sorta IS a lightning rod. It's not his
fault that he is, but he is.
Harry realizes that there HAS to be some sort of "Black Council" because of Just How Much Shit comes to Chicago. It gets black magic of various stripes, werewolves, Kemmlerites --
Kemmlerites, fer gawdsake, haven't been reliably seen for DECADES, and suddenly they hold their Homecoming Dance in Chi-Town??!? -- warring Faerie Queens (repeatedly), Denarians (30 of them
for the whole world and they keep coming (usually in multiples) to Chicago?!), etc etc etc. All the way back to penny-ante Sells, a marginal talent who gets MULTIPLE magics that Harry (full WC Wizard) doesn't know how to do. "
srsly, dude, wtf?"
Not being entirely stupid, Harry has concluded that something else is sending and/or luring All This Shit to his city. Too much of it smacks of mortal magic... hence wizards... hence a Black Council.
Is that his fault? Is
any of that Harry's fault? No, it isn't.
BUT, he's the most-visible, most-obvious Supernatural in town. It... kinda makes sense that every Darth Bathrobe who visits has just gotta go poke him with a stick. Just, y'know... to see. And
that makes him a "lightning rod."
And then we get to the whole "Starborn" business. The books don't give us much data, beyond it being potent vs Outsiders; don't recall how much more WoJ gives. But there's (a) possible
Fate / Destiny / Chosen One stuff going on, and (b) possible Supernatural Attention (and maybe more) toward any Starborn. Again --
Not Harry's Fault. But it may still be a true thing about Harry.