1. It's just scene aspects tagged for control or power - see below
2. On occasion I'd allow using aspects to boost a spell without needing to use more mental stress but, no matter what, you still need to control the extra power. I wouldn't allow a whole bunch of free spells...although, maybe, if you spent a FP on it, I might allow a spell at a certain Power without it costing stress. Kind of how using a Ley Line might work. (a la 'Places of Power' YS pg. 292; and 'temporary access' pg. 289) So, I'd do it on a case by case situation. But, yeah, you'd still need to try to control it.
Someone mentioned that using those aspects may even cause you to pull in more power than you can control...which would be a cool compel. Trying to channel a thunderstorm is dangerous...
3. I'm not familiar with how that works...I've never tried it.