Aren't you guys supposed to carry a list of places to eat so you can decide when we're wishy-washy?
Maybe we need to create a Magic 8-ball of restaurants...
Man/Woman: Where should we go to dinner?
8 Ball: Signs point to Ruth's Chris.
I have to admit, most nights I just don't care - but I also don't complain when he makes a choice. If he doesn't have a preference, I'll pick something (although, he usually has a preference). And, if I have a couple of ideas, or a specific preference, I will say so!
Same way at work. I usually don't care because most days I bring my lunch. So when I've decided to go out, anything sounds good. But, if I do have something in mind, I'll happily make the decision.
Edited because I inadvertently posted an incomplete post.