Bad communication is not a gender-specific thing.
The ways in which people are socially taught that bad communication is appropriate definitely differ, sure. (See Murphy pointing out the stupidity of the whole Harry and Thomas not communicating because it's a guy thing in PG.)
Doesn't mean you can;t legitimately expect people who really care to make the effort to really communicate.
Its not really about bad communication. Not saying we had good communication, just that choosing the color of the furniture was (or should be) an important part of our relationship. For my part, I felt she didn't really value my opinion as much as she wanted to reason out the pros and cons by talking to someone instead of in her head. I thought of it more as a joke, but it was one of the most annoying things she did (which is to say, not that important to me). It wasn't a problem unless she was stressed then she took it personal if I didn't pay immediate attention. I just mentioned it because its a common theme between men and women and could provide for some funny dialoge that wouldn't make a reader dislike a character, just seem kinda quirky. If its the man not listening to the woman, its not so funny. Women not listening to men, funny. Go figure.
Also pointing to something out the window while one person is driving and saying "look at that!". Or pointing to a map while driving through the middle of Atlanta and saying "We're should be here. I think if we keep going in this direction..." Like I can see the map in the dark while I'm trying to not commit vehicular homicide. (My dad did that to me last week). It might actually be funny if we were driving through a zombie infested landscape ala I am Legend or Resident Evil, etc.. He'd totally do that to me to.
"Ohh no don't take this road Ricky. Its a toll road" (from TN where there aren't any and we consider them an abomination)
"we've got a human corpse on the hood. well, half a human corpse. I'm pretty sure they'll let us through the smart tag section with that"
"Ok, but I'm not sure I've got exact change if your wrong"
"I've got an idea, lets ask Stumpy if hes got any. Oh wait, he doesn't have pockets.. or legs."
Ok no more caffeine for me tonight.