I think I have it fixed. Neither flickr nor facebook would work, so I uploaded it to photobucket, then realized I had to resize it. I hope it's an acceptable size now. It's from John Kovalic, the artist/cartoonist who does Dorktower, Apples to Apples, and the Munchkin card game. I asked his permission to use it as an icon/avatar and he gave it to me, for which I will always be grateful, because it really is perfect for me. The only way it could be more perfect would be if the spinster cat lady had red hair and a wall of bookcases behind her.