let me see if I can add fuel to the fire. Conflicts. You can have full Social Conflict, full Physical Conflict, or MIXED Conflict.
Full Social example would be two attorney's going at it in a courtroom. Each using social skills to sway a jury to their side.
Full Physical Conflict would be a wrestling match. Two people going at it on the mat, protective gear and mouthpieces.
Mixed. Baseball or Basketball, take your pick. In each, athletes are using physical skills to score points, while using social skills to not let the trash talk take them out of the game. I have seen players after a game so shutdown from the trash talking that they have been in tears. I would consider them "Taken out" by social attacks.
A more physical example? A street fight. Both fighters posture themselves, each launching social attacks, and racking up consequences. Little doubts about skills, confusion over whether or not they can win, fuming rage that clouds the level head needed in a fight. All those social consequences become tagged by the fighters when punches start getting swung. They all add up, and the one that lost the social battle can easily loose the fight as the crowd laughs at the fighter that lost the social battle, which in turn lowers his self esteem and increases his unthinking rage.
Can you be killed by a social attack? No, but you can be taken out. Withdrawn, catatonic, so shaken up inside that you want to walk away and curl up into a ball cutting yourself off from the world that hurt you. How many times have we read or heard about someone having a nervous breakdown and just loosing it. Fainting from stress or over excitement? All equal being taken out socially.